Charlie, I know many people will appreciate you writing about this. The news you've just received is devastating and will take time to process. I have friends going through similar and it is tough.

It sounds like there are options to consider when you're ready. Right now though it's OK to howl and let your pain out. Thank you for not being quiet about this and speaking up for others who are unable to. I'm sending you a warm hug as you figure out your next steps. Take care and good luck. 💗